Playing online poker, international poker tournaments, televised poker is at an all time high. The public gets to see the game being played and it has become such a popular spectator sport because of the agony and ecstasy – in other words, the drama. Part of the drama in poker is losing, but like most professional sports there is only really one winner. The guy/girl at the top of his/her game – in movies this is the glamour puss!
Losing hurts badly for most players but winning is intoxicating; it is something the player wants to experience time and again. Unfortunately one of the facts of life is that you can’t always be a winner, there will always be someone better than you and tantamount to being a good player is being a good loser.
To put this in a more positive light “being able to not win well”. Some players simply cannot handle losing and it is inevitable that a pile of broken bodies shores up the mountain of successful poker players. These successful players standing at the top of the pile are the players who have been able to handle losing well.
Texas Hold ‘em in particular provides for a massive pool of players whose skills are getting better all the time. They are making names for themselves and have huge skills levels. They haven’t seen glory days yet, while other top players are trading on old reputations. Recognition and differentiation between poker playing states of being is critical.
Believing you are bulletproof particularly after winning in No Limit Hold ‘em is not a good place to be. This game in particular combines great skill with massive amounts of completely random luck, and it is all part and parcel of this game. Most of the people sitting round that last table had to get lucky to get there, while this may not be true of most other poker games. As a poker player you have to know this!
No one wants to downplay the skill it takes to get to the end of a No Limit Hold ‘em Tournament; there is simply an aspect to this game which makes it different from others. The point is that every player should get this, and it is the players that don’t get the idea who will be the dead bodies shoring up the mountain.
Poker skill lasts a lifetime while luck is fleeting, it comes and goes. Understanding this helps the player to weather losses better and be cool about losing too. These players understand that the laws of the universe, chaos, mathematics and quantum theory apply to them and their game too.
Skill and knowledge will always be around to help you be a winning poker player, even if you lose the game. It’s all about being real, keeping your feet on the ground, your head out of the clouds and getting down to the business of playing poker for as long as you want to. Not just for the glory of, and intoxication of winning!